A Place They Want To Be

If you want someone to be and stay in your life, you must make your life a place they want to stay. This means making sure they have what they need emotionally, and physically. This is one of the most basic relationship rules and needs not being met are a large reason people leave relationships.

So how do you make your life a place someone wants to be? For starters you must make them feel wanted, cherished, appreciated. For instance, do you listen to your partners needs? Can they come to you and discuss even sensitive topics without negative consequences? Do you treat them with kindness and care? Are you emotionally available to them?

You will not know what your partner needs until you start listening and not just with your ears. You must pay attention to their moods, facial expressions, body language even. All these things will tell you what you need to know, and if you don’t know – ask. Simply ask what you can do to meet their needs and take notes!

It is also very important that you make the relationship a safe place for your partner. They need to know that they can talk to you and speak their minds without negative ramifications like being yelled at, made to feel guilty or getting into a fight. When your partner feels safe to come to you it opens up many levels of trust and communication.

Another way to make sure your life is where your partner wants to stay is to make them feel valued in the relationship. This can be done in many ways including simply telling them how much you appreciate them. Remember though, actions speak louder than words and if you want them to believe it, you must also follow through with actions to prove it. Do little things for them like fill up their car with gas, give them the TV remote, cook their favorite dinner, or hold their hand.

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