Save Your Marriage From Breakup

When a marriage has reached the point where a breakup seems imminent there is probably more than one problem in the relationship. We hear how a marriage has broken up because of infidelity on the part of one or both of the partners. We hear how it has broken up because of incompatibilty or because of financial problems or for various other reasons. Rarely is it true that there is only one problem. If it were true, that one problem could be resolved relatively easily in many cases.

However there is usually a total breakdown because of many problems coming together to cause almost irrepairable damage. Infidelity is the leading cause of marriage breakup. But is it only the result of one of the partners finding a love interest outside the marriage or is it a result of pressure within the marriage which has caused the pot to boil over, as we might say, and for one or both partners to seek solace elsewhere. Often the latter is the case. There has been financial pressure perhaps compounded by incompatability, or some other factor which has driven a deep wedge into the relationship and has made the grass look so much greener on the other side of the fence so to speak.

How can the marriage be saved? Well first of all it needs both partners to get together and frankly discuss what the problems within the marriage are. Their causes, and what can be done about them, need to be uncovered and laid bare. Then it needs both partners to agree on what they can each do to put things back together. Perhaps he shouldn,t spend all day every Sunday watching the NHL on TV while she wonders why they never go out with the kids and dog anymore, like they used to. Perhaps she shouldn,t spend every evening talking on the phone with friends instead of sitting down for a nice evening of relaxation with him while they talk about all the things going on in their lives. It needs a mutual understanding of how things like this are pushing them apart. Marriages even break down because one partner spends so much time living a virtual life on the internet that the real life doesn,t really matter much anymore.

These problems must be resolved by both halves of the relationship realising that there is a problem there and taking steps to put it right.It takes both partners to realise that they are two wonderful people who had an unbelievably good relationship to begin with. Now because of pressures from many sources they have drifted far apart even though they didn,t want this to happen. It is absolutely within their power to put things back together with frank discussion, and a willingness by both to take the steps which are necessary to get that great relationship back on track, and save their marriage.

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